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Cover yourselves in paint and have sex on a canvas — put the art up on your dining room wall. It’ll be a sexy secret between you and your partner (well, and me).

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If you and your partner are interested in bringing someone else into the bedroom, and that someone else is an inanimate object, have I found the sex toys and treats for you! Below you'll find every sense covered in some form of pleasurable play; from flavored condoms and massage candles to silk scarves, clit suckers and, um, teeny tiny monster-shaped vibrators. You do you, Boo.

This flared, flame-like shape perfectly slips between you and your partner for premium external stimulation during intercourse. This has four speeds and two pulsing modes. It's also waterproof, which is sure to make baths with your S.O. sextra special.

Promising reviews: "I never write reviews, but I had to because this vibrator is EXACTLY what I have been looking for. I was able to finish several times in seconds. It’s soft and kind of feels like a tongue — it’s fantastic. The shape, the settings, the size, plus it's waterproof and chargeable! Exactly what I needed and have been looking for for so long. Perfect." —Anonymous

"I’m a bit of a vibrator snob. I will try any of them, but most end up in the trash. I saw these in an ad online. They were completely sold out, so I figured this brand must be pretty good. It is better than pretty good – it’s amazing. It’s so quiet, yet super powerful. It feels soft, and the power button is easy to find, and the settings are easy to navigate through. My husband even bought me a backup. I am going to start recommending this brand to my friends." —Kat

This is made with 100% soybean wax enhanced with vitamin E to keep skin nourished. It'll also easily double as decor in your home if you'd like to leave it out on your dresser for easy reach... no one will even get a ~whiff~ of what this candle is really used for!

Promising review: "This invention is amazing. You can use it to moisturize the skin or as a romantic tease for you and your partner. Great idea." —Thomas E. Scott

Get it from Amazon for $20+ (available in six scents).

If you and your partner are looking for something *everybody* loves, you can't top this pint-sized powerhouse! It has over 40,000 5-star ratings on Amazon for a reason! This has 11 unique levels using their patented "Air Pulse" technology, which creates a feeling surprisingly comparable to oral sex. It is waterproof and has a super sleek handle, which makes it easy to place between you and your partner during intercourse. The more stimulation, the better, babes!

Promising reviews: "Bought this lil' fella for my GF so I don't need to work as hard. I spend thousands a year on tools because it makes my work easier. Why I waited until now to get the right tool for this job is a bit of a mystery. Anyways, to explain how good this is: almost no foreplay, stuck it to her, kissed her neck for a couple of minutes, and she about broke her own back. Maybe five minutes! She thought she was done and pulled it off. I put it right back and kept going. Had to cover her mouth so she didn't wake up the kids. She had three by the time I had one, which works for me! TL;DR: buy it for your partner because you can't even try to compete with that." —Shaun F.

This classic sexual accessory has a textured vibrating head that'll stimulate both clit and balls when worn by a partner. It's a top-tier couples' toy for that very reason! The silicone ring is super stretchy, so it'll comfortably fit around a penis (and can also be wrapped around a dildo) and will keep the good ~vibes~ coming for both partners during sex. The cock ring vibrator has five speeds and patterns for up to 25 unique intensities – nice.

Promising review: "This product has a deep resonance that reaches deep inside her and me. It's easily movable to find just the right spot. Not only does it touch her in the right places, but it sets me to vibrating as well. It feels good to me and to her. If you are looking to last a long time, I recommend not putting it on until you are ready to finish. Then we arrive together. This is an excellent product that has lasted me for a couple of years now. It's her favorite." —A. P. Shideler

This smooth shibari rope is made from 100% natural jute and enhanced with aromatic oils for multi-sensory play. Each rope is 26 feet long and 0.24 inches in diameter. These pieces are "boiled for softness, hand-dyed, stretched under tension, flame-treated for smoothness, oiled for elasticity, and finished with hypoallergenic oils," so you know you'll both be treated to the very best. Plus, the color collection available is so gorgeous it could practically double as decor, especially for partners who love filling their home with fiber art... for more than one reason. 

Bliss BDSM is a small business in Ukraine that creates handcrafted BDSM leather gear and accessories, Shibari jute ropes, and wax candles.

Promising review: "The rope is so nice, and the color is so pretty. The shipping was fast as well. I forgot to mark my color choices, and the seller was super kind and responsive. The rope has a rougher texture, which is nice. It does shed a little bit." —Holly Robinson

Get it from Bliss BDSM on Etsy for $18.84+ (available in nine colors and several sets).

These are a great addition to your regularly scheduled foreplay. Go ahead, throw some relaxing heat into your massage routine. You're both gonna love it. This set includes four large and two small basalt stones that retain heat, helping relieve muscle tension, relax your body, and improve blood flow. 

Promising review: "These pay for themselves after the first time! What a JOY to spoil my beloved Coach J (kind spouse of nearly 39 years) with these wonderful hot stones! They really keep their heat! Heavenly bliss! I even dropped one stone about four feet to my kitchen floor, and it didn't break or chip! Phew! High quality indeedy!" —Judi J.

This kit is ideal for long-distance partners or particularly crafty couples. It is easy to make (follow the how-to section of their website), safe, and uses medical-grade materials to perfectly clone your perfect penis. The kit includes a vibrator and the ingredients needed to form your personalized dildo. I found this thing several years ago and had to get one for my husband to try. He was just skeptical enough about it to actually do it. And guess what? This kit really does work like a charm! After it's finished drying, you'll have a vibe unlike anything you've had before (well, actually, it'll be pretty dang similar to something you've had before).

Promising review: "I’ve been using Clone-A-Willy products for several years. I think I’ve made about 15 castings of myself, some for art projects, some as gifts for special friends. I favor the glow-in-the-dark finish; I love to see it all lit up at night. There was a bit of a learning curve for me to perfect my technique. I’m above average size with a slight downward curve, so staying away from the sides of the mold is tricky. The recent post about using a larger water bottle to cast in works great, thanks for the tip!" —Thom P.

Get it from Clone-A-Willy for $54.95 (available in three skin tones, ten colors, and a penis with balls version; accessories to assist in the crafting process are also available) — you can also find a limited selection on Amazon.

You better believe there's also a vagina version! With this skin-safe kit, you can cast your labia and co. and connect it to a flexible masturbation sleeve — making a comfortable and shockingly detailed version of your very best bit for your long-distance lover. The case is 8 inches long and 2.5 inches wide at its smallest point. The kit includes body-safe silicone, algae-based molding powder, water-based lube, molding containers, and instructions. Seriously, long distance doesn't have to feel so far, folks!

Promising review: "This was simple to use and produced an amazing final product! Saved my long-distance relationship! At first, I wasn't sure what to expect from this kit since I had never done any molding in the past, but I was pleasantly surprised by how simple and FUN it was! I was a little hesitant because of some of the less satisfied reviews, but I realized after doing the kit myself that it's vital to READ THE DIRECTIONS very thoroughly, and those that messed up the kit most likely skimmed them briefly (or skipped that step altogether). I was so excited that this kit comes with two bags of powder, so I got to make two molds of my vulva and pick my favorite one! The final product was astonishing, so cute, high quality, and I was blown away by the detail. My boyfriend is a soccer player from Spain and travels often, we've recently struggled with keeping our intimacy on track and with this kit for me and the Clone-A-Willy kit for him we've been renewed and our FaceTime dates have been taken to a whole new level ;) 10/10 recommend!" —Jospeh H.

Get it from Clone-A-Willy for $89 (available in four colors).

This dildo is designed with added girth on one end, making it a comfortable option for couples who have different penetration size preferences. The skin-safe silicone is both flexible and squishy, making it particularly comfortable as you shift positions. The material also retains body heat for an extra-natural feel. 

Promising review: "My partner and I enjoy this. While it is designed to be used by couples, she in particular has used it for solo purposes as well. The quality is high and the appearance is great. The smaller end is a little difficult to insert into an anus (it’s slippery), but all in all, both ends could be used for anything. If you see this and like the concept, you will probably like owning it. Would be great for all." —Anonymous

Get it from Rodeoh for $59.99 (available in four styles).

This gorgeous 10.25-inch dildo is designed for deep penetration and is also excellent for external massage. It's ideal for couples who either love or want to try out temperature play with penetration. You can heat it up or cool it off under water, allowing you to test out something new with a toy that's out-of-this-world lovely. 

Promising review: "I ordered this because a friend recommended it, and it did NOT disappoint. My girlfriend and I both agree, the glass is sooo smooth in comparison to all of the silicone toys we have been using. The curvature is incredible for pleasure, and the handle is shaped well for ease of use. Also, it's the most beautiful sex toy I've ever seen; honestly would have no shame if I left it on my bed and a roommate asked what it was LOL. That probably won't happen, though, because it came with a cute storage bag! I'm excited to explore temperature play! <3" —M.

If you and your partner are looking for ways to make blow jobs extra fun for both parties, these *delectable* condoms are a great way to enhance your play! Go ahead and be bold — leave a candy dish of condoms by the side of your bed. Delicious. This includes vanilla, mint, strawberry, grape, chocolate, and banana. 

Promising review: "These make oral sex so much more satisfying. This simply magnifies the experience for you as the person giving it enjoys them." —Timothy Payne

A true fusion of sex toy favorites, this is gonna take your body on a RIDE. It combines Bellesa's best-in-class G-spot vibrator technology with their Cinetic SuctionTM 2.0 technology, which you and your partner are gonna love introducing in bed. Thanks, Science. There are 10 (!) vibration modes and five suuuper satisfying suction settings. Say that five times fast. And then slow. And then fast again. 

BTW, I own this toy, and I am equal parts delighted and impressed by how high-quality it is. The oral-simulating suction gives my clit constant attention while the adjustable design lets me choose to stimulate my vagina through penetration or external play. I also love stretching it out for perineum stimulation. You can play with this hands-on or hands-off (I highly recommend trying it out while standing up — it's perfect for shower sex). Now go get this. That is all.

You and your partner are gonna love introducing Trinity, Starsi, and Princette vibrators into your bed. These buzz-worthy buds all include a removable vibrator and can be used in a variety of ways for everybody. I know from experience! I love maximalism in every part of my life, including sex toy designs, it turns out. I thought these were such a positive, cute idea that I snagged them as soon as this pack was available. I can confirm: they are great for all body types and are versatile enough for some really satisfying, unique stimulation.

Promising review: "These little fuckers are super cute and also super effective. Their vibrations are strong and not too buzzy. I love that the vibrating bullets are removable, and I intend to use them with my harness since I like their vibrations so much. The larger head of Trinity/Trip/Trine is amazing for giving a full sensation without feeling too stretched. Starsi's unique shape is fun to play with, and I've already discovered the joys of putting one of the points on my clit as the two legs on opposite sides lie on my labia. The texture on the underside, combined with the vibrations, is very pleasant on sensitive zones. Princette Puppypus is the only one I've not used yet, but the texture is wonderful, and I'm sure it will be a joy to try them out. They're also just plain pretty, and I basically have them on full display." —Riley

Get them on sale from Cute Little Fuckers for $199 (originally $237).

If you are looking for options to help your sexual experience with your partner be more comfortable, this brand is here for you! These'll help prevent pain from penetrative sex by creating a nice lil' buffer that'll be enjoyed by both you and your partner. These latex-free rings are safe to use with condoms and with both water- and silicone-based lubes.

Promising review: "We can finally have sex again. As a woman with PCOS, endometriosis, recent vaginal surgery, and a partner with an above-average penis size, I had sex maybe three times a year, where I was always in pain. We can now have sex regularly, and it has made our relationship so much better. Thank you, Ohnut, for inventing this product!" —Patty

Get it from Ohnut for $75 (grab a storage case while you're at it!).

You don't have to spend an arm and a leg to get some great additions to your toy collection. This smooth, super-soft blindfold is gentle on both skin and hair, while capable of staying tight around your eyes to make sure nobody peeks... because not knowing what ~cums~ next is half the fun.

Promising review: "This does the job. It’s comfortable, and it can be used for your hands or over your eyes! Fun!" —Amelia

This toy is safe to use with any lube. It's also a BIGGIE — 1.11 pounds to be exact. In all, this tantalizing toy has seven inches of length for upping your vaginal, anal, and temperature play. It also has such a sleek, elegant look that'll deserve to be on your mantel as much as it deserves to be in ya body!

Get it on sale from Le Wand for $75 (originally $125).

If you're just starting to enjoy more anal play, peep what all the novice reviewers who are totally heart-eyes over this have to say, because they're all raving about how this makes introductory anal play much more accessible. It's super cute and also temperature-sensitive, so be sure to enjoy a ~chill~ evening every now and again!

Promising review: "Super comfortable! This is my first plug, and I'm pretty happy with everything. Extremely comfortable, you're able to move and sit with it in. Super cute. Perfect for beginners! Smooth and easy to put in." —Jala

This set includes a six-inch vibrating dildo, a strap-on, a harness, a vibrating anal plug (specifically for beginners!), and two wireless remotes. There are many shapes and designs to help you and your partner decide what you would both like best. And know that you're getting some of the very best! B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.

Promising review: "This is a great anal beginner toy or an excellent option for those looking for something on the smaller end of the plug spectrum. It's excellent motor gives it a lot of bang for the buck, so even those who enjoy a larger toy could get a lot of pleasure out of this plug." —Kat Stark

Get it from B-Vibe for $178.49 (valued at $250; available in black and fuchsia with 4 different dildo options).

This bullet vibrator and contoured pointed vibrator are happy to come with you and your boo on your next vacation! These are practically travel-sized toys specifically made to highlight your most sensitive areas. The bullet vibrator has 11 vibration modes with four intensities that'll be great for overall sensations. If you want more pinpointed pleasure, you and your partner will use the Le Wand Point vibrator — this one has 15 vibration modes and six different intensities. But that's not it! You can use the bullet with the textured silicone sleeve and ring to shake things up even more. 

Get it on sale from Le Wand for $100 (originally $200).

This sneaky piece of ultra-functional furniture can be folded into an ottoman when not in, ahem, active use. This is such a great way to introduce new positions into your sexual repertoire. You can use it as a classic ramp or shift it to its side — either way you play it, you and your boo are going to enjoy some deep penetration. It's formed with high-density foam, and there's a cover that can be removed, exposing the moisture-resistant fabric underneath when in use. 

Promising reviews: "If I could, I'd give this 10 stars! I'm a thick gal, and this holds me up very well! It gives the perfect position for me, and it's a much easier 'ride' for my husband! Best of all, the part we 'use' is folded up, so I never feel guilty about my children coming in the bedroom and sitting on it. It's easy to clean because it is double-covered. Love this purchase!!" —Bel Dezas

Get it from Amazon $179.99+ (available in two colors).

This clever wedge has handles on the sides so you and your partner can easily (and sometimes most importantly...quickly) move from one position to another. Introducing a simple, structured pillow really can completely change intercourse, and it's a super approachable way to introduce items into your sex life if that's something new to you. And for folks who have used pleasure furniture in the past, you'll know what a genius design this is from the first moment you try it out! P.S. It comes with a machine-washable cotton cover and is made with water-resistant lining.

Promising reviews: "Everything it’s promised to be and more! Also can be used as a yoga cushion prop! Such a win-win!!" —Jeannie Z.

"The angle was incredible for both of us. My wife had never experienced a G-spot and clit orgasm at the same time, ever! Also, she didn’t want to stop! It is a bit firm, but we feel that lends to the pleasure. We have had other pillows in the past, but way too bulky and big. This is priced right, too." —Kerry D.

Get it from Dame for $129 (available in two colors).

This contoured grinding pad is gonna be a gosh darn delight! Place it against the base of your dildo and enjoy some cushioned, curved stimulation every time you thrust. Its unique bumped design is soft in some areas and sturdier in others, creating optimal connection to really hit the spot for folks who enjoy outer friction to penetration during sex.

Promising review: "I will never not use this thing. It is soooo soft. It feels so nice AND hits that sweet spot every single time. My girl and I love it. 🥇🥇🥇" —Brie Sews

Get it from Amazon for $36 (available in four colors).

This toy is designed to stimulate the G-spot, clitoris, and penis (if there's one around) all at the same time. It can be inserted into the vaginal canal alongside a penis, with the extended arm aiding in exterior pleasure with each thrust. If you and your partner both have vaginas, the external side can aid in some absolutely irresistible grinding rhythms. This is wearable, waterproof, and includes pre-set speeds (three in total) or can be connected through your phone for personalized preferences. 

Promising review: "Nice way to have equal pleasure with your partner!" —Lori Burns

Get it from Amazon for $219 (available in four colors).

This massive masterpiece is an ideal addition to dual pegging with your partner. Some reviewers say this is so soft and smooth they don't even use lube (but keep it around, comfort is key!). It's flexible enough to really move inside your body, allowing the vibration settings to hit spots you've never even noticed before. Which sounds delightful. It's suitable for both vaginal and anal sex and includes nine settings through the connected app.

Promising review: "My fiancée is a trans woman, and I am a cis woman. This was delightful for both of us to enjoy. Good shape on both ends, great selection of vibrations." —Staci

"Have had this product for about three months. I am a lesbian and use it with my partner. Here are some comments: The material is super soft and comfortable. We both enjoy it. You might not even need lube. The shape is the most ergonomic I have ever tried. Much nicer than realistic dildos, which can hurt sometimes. The longer part reaches various areas inside you; it's interesting. The vibration is very well distributed along the toy. The bump close to the middle of the longer side reaches the clitoris on the one using the short side, which is a nice extra. It has several vibration modes, so you will find one you like. Overall, a good toy for lesbians who like penetration, and both can enjoy it. Even the softer vibration mode is a little too strong for me, so it's best for people who like a little rougher and stronger vibration." —jess

New York Toy Collective is a Black- and queer-owned business featuring high-quality, gender-affirming intimacy toys and products. This impressive piece is their largest posable dildo for folks who want an extra full feel. It's girthy and made with premium silicone. At 7.5 inches and the width of about three fingers, it's super versatile; great for solo moments and partner play. BTW, be sure to check out their site for packers, binders, dildos, and more!

Promising review: "This dildo is AMAZING. I just used it on my partner and had to rush here to write a review because it was just such a pleasure to use. She loved the big head, and I loved how it kept its position. My partner has a big butt, so we’ve always chosen lengthier dildos, but sometimes, that loses girth, and I can’t have the amount of push behind my thrusts as I would like, but this one was a great length AND girthy enough to translate some good fill. It is soooooo worth the money. This is our first NYTC dildo, but it will never be the last. I love that the company has handmade products made by the queer fam. Nobody gets our bodies as we do, and this product showed that for sure. I can’t wait to receive it! Thank you so much for doing you and making this amazing dildo!" —Armand Goldman

Get it from New York Toy Collective for $199.99 (originally $219.99; available in seven shades).

Whether you choose the chili pepper, banana, pickle, or eggplant vibe, each will ~produce~ some very real pleasure for you and your partner. Each piece is small and smooth, making them easy toys to switch between partners throughout play. These have 10 vibration settings, a waterproof design, and they're battery-operated. And they're such a reasonable price, you might as well treat these toys like Pokémon cards — you've gotta catch 'em all! 

Promising reviews: "Love this little pepper. Small, cute, and most importantly — efficient ;)" —Deanna D.

"First toy ever, I'm OBSESSED!!!!! really good material, super quiet, strong vibration." —Christina

This mighty little machine has 11 different modes for some satisfaction and success. In fact, it's so absurdly satisfying that you and your partner just might find yourselves waddling your way to work the morning after.

Promising review: "The magnetic charger is easy to use and the penguin charges quickly. This toy means business, the sensations are amazing, and it offers different degrees of intensity." —eggbuelkicks

Get it from Amazon for $39+ (available in two styles).

You can skip the gallery opening and still get ready for an iconic date night, resulting in some *fine* art thanks to this set. This comes with a 10x12 plastic tarp, two pairs of slippers, a soft body scrubber, washable non-toxic paint, and canvas. To create your painting, either cover each other in paint or spread the paint across the canvas — either way you play, that canvas is about to make your bed VERY jealous.

Promising review: "I ended up buying this as a gift for my husband on Valentine's Day. This is actually a pretty fair price considering that it comes with everything you need (canvas, plastic tarp, paint, slippers, and a loofah). Set up is easy and probably takes a little mutual planning beforehand. Just splotch paint all over the canvas and have fun!

It dried quickly overnight, and the artwork ended up looking amazing! You wouldn't be able to guess how it was created just by looking at it, so it's hung up in our living room and is 'our little secret.' The paint washed off of us easily, and we had fun with the cleanup as well." —Lyla Mae

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