"I never cared about men living at home with their parents. I grew up around immigrants, so this was more normal for me. What I do care about is if you are helping out with the household, like helping with bills, doing stuff around the house, helping babysit nieces and nephews, etc."

"Mean Girls is a good litmus test because that movie is awesome."

"Good music and good movies are not gendered. Being confident enough to enjoy what you like is more attractive than trying to act tough."

"My brother-in-law was so nervous/excited to propose that he blacked out and doesn’t actually remember the proposal. Good thing they have pictures. 😅"

"I love that my husband and his friends tell each other 'I love you' after catching up on the phone. Like, it’s just second nature to show they all genuinely care about each other."

"Seriously. I've known plenty of couples where the woman was taller. This height obsession is goofy."

"And then whoever was teasing him, man or woman, would ask nicely, because yes, now that he mentioned it, we DID want a cookie. He'd be so magnanimous, handing over a cookie. I thought it was bizarrely hot, bro and his cookies, and his absolute unconcern for the teasing. I wasn't alone; he never wanted for a girl."

"Yes. Clear and respectful communication is attractive. Mind-reading games are what kill the vibe."

"Guy moans are hot AF. Let your girl hear them, fellas."

"OMG, I love hearing a man moan, groan, breath shuddering in excitement, talking dirty, etc. It's so hot to know he's enjoying himself immensely, too."

"I LOVE bald men. They never believe me that lots of women find it sexy!!"

"I've seen my husband through a wide range of emotions, including fear and deep sadness, and I haven't lost respect or attraction to him. If anything, being connected to him in this way brought us even closer together and strengthened our intimacy. Literally, I think the only time I'd consider it an issue is if he had such severe emotional dysregulation that it eroded the rest of our relationship. Internalized gender expectations are an issue even for women, though, and it's worth it for all of us to deconstruct that. We all have a long way to go."

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